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How To Be Neutral When Life Gets Crazy ©2017 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
The other day I was talking with a woman who is a natural psychic. She sees things in depth, but is swayed by the pain and suffering that she uncovers.
It made me remember my days as a clairvoyant student and the bulk of our training was on reading from a neutral space. In order to give a clear and balanced interpretation for a client, we need to see them without our own preconceived notions coloring our ‘lenses’.
|Cosmic Soap Bubbles (God Takes A Bath)
This ability to see things from a higher perspective is invaluable, especially during these insane times.
It’s not heartless to be neutral, it’s actually highly spiritual.
The qualities of Consciousness are neutrality, amusement, childlike wonder, immense wisdom, depth, and impartiality. It is Love in it’s highest form, which is unbiased and unconditional.
Now we’re all becoming more highly sensitive, which means our abilities are increasing: to feel other’s feelings, see clearly beyond façades, intuitively “know” what’s about to happen, pick up on other’s thoughts, and the list goes on.
When we’re experiencing life from a ‘boots on the ground’ viewpoint, we’re going to feel the world’s pain, we’re going to judge what we see as good or bad, we’re going to feel responsible for events beyond our control, and be confused about what is us and what is the collective.
Terrible things are happening in the world all the time. There’s a bigger spotlight on them now, we can immediately see tragedies around the world, where ever people have smart phones that can load images on the internet.
How can you be neutral when life is so crazy?
Here’s a few things you can do:
1. Imagine yourself a Half Step Above whatever you’re experiencing. If you’re in a crowd, allow yourself to be a “half step above” the prevalent emotion. If you’re watching something on TV or on your device, be a ‘half step above’ internally. It shifts your perspective up a notch, giving you some distance from what you’re observing.
2. Another way to do this is Be A Different Color or Tone. If you’re in a group of people and their energy is darker, imagine your personal bubble to be a lighter or brighter color. If you detect things by sound, if you’re perceiving static or disharmony, let yourself be a different musical tone.
3. Blow bubbles, you can do this for real, or just in your head. Watching TV or reading the news, imagine a stream of bubbles popping. It helps clear your preconceived notions about what is going on. This is also a great way to go to sleep at night, clearing your brain so you’re fresh in the morning.
4. A Consciousness Technique is to view things from farther away, like sitting in the Skybox at a football game, or hovering over the game in a Goodyear Blimp. When you see people as players on the field (and even yourself down there as a player in this game of life), you can get a ‘bigger picture’ of what is going on.
This world is full of dichotomies and contradictions. Physical reality is real in that it’s meant to be physically experienced, through our bodies. But it’s a creation of our Consciousness. As Consciousness, we love our creation. As Consciousness, we’re both in time and space (as we’re experiencing it in form) and outside of it. Outside of time and space, it’s all happening at once in the blink of an eye. It’s all happening simultaneously, that means all lifetimes *and* all possibilities.
We can’t comprehend that from within our bodies and personalities, that live along a linear timeline.
When you can get neutral, and shift your perspective to that as Consciousness, you can have compassion for those that are suffering, and also for those that cause suffering. You can appreciate and love all of this wonderful world.
Try these for the next several days and watch your life reorganize in amazing ways!
Attack of the Zombie Gremlins! ©2017 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
We all have negative voices in our heads. Dr. Daniel Amen calls them Automatic Negative thoughts. Dr. Jill Bolte Taylor says they’re a cluster of cells on the left side of our brain responsible for keeping us organized, reminding us to buy milk on the way home from work, or get our taxes done by the 15th. I realize that it’s our body’s GPS, containing all the programming we’ve ever received about how to be in this world.
Our GPS’ are filled with outdated maps and misinformation. It’s set on “avoid highways” and ‘fastest route’ at the same time. And if you try to vary your method for getting somewhere, it will loudly protest. This is your inner Gremlin, your Automatic Negative Thought.
Gremlin voices arise Whenever you try something new, and go beyond the programming from your childhood, whether it’s family, societal, cultural, religious or whatever.
Gremlins are familiar, they’ve been in your head all your life. You don’t even realize they’re not your own thoughts. You just accept them as reality.
They’re incredibly limiting. You can’t go beyond their boundaries. They dismiss your dreams.
I woke up in the morning with this thought, “Zombie Gremlins”. Reflecting on what is going on in the world today, there seems to be so much unconsciousness. So many people running off their Automatic Negative Thoughts.
They’re not even questioning their thoughts, they’re just letting this dysfunctional GPS steer them off into the bushes, like some jury-rigged self driving car.
It’s easy to do, when you think that you *are* your vehicle, and you think your Automatic Negative Thoughts are real.
You feel powerless to these thoughts, and incapable of changing your route, when it seems like *everyone* is driving this way.
However, when you shift your awareness to your Essential Self, you recognize that your hands are on the wheel. You steer where your attention is.
Take your attention off the negative thoughts, and you start to notice so many more possibilities out in the world. (The ANTS get louder at first, but when you don’t feed them with your attention, they fade away).
The bigger reason why Zombie Gremlins seem so prevalent in the world today, is that greater Light is more present in the world today.
Greater Consciousness is more present. And your Essential Self is the You that is Greater Consciousness.
You turn on the lights and exposes the dysfunction. You start to drive differently and your ANTS go nuts. Temporarily.
When ANTS show up during the day, squash ’em, feed ’em to your ANTeater, send ’em to the ANT farm.
Put a bowl of sugar outside the garage before you retire at night, beside the Anteater cage (within tongue licking distance).
Or you can just tell yourself you’re going to update your GPS when you go to sleep and your inner computer with automatically reorganize.
Play with this for the next 7 days and your life will totally transform.
Staying Present In Traumatic Times ©2017 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
The last couple weeks were somewhat traumatic. First, my 15 year old dog had a seizure and possible stroke, and the next week a family member who has COPD (possibly emphysema) and MCI (mild cognitive problems) went into the hospital with pneumonia. It took be back to a time I’ve written about a lot, 2011-2013, with our other dog who had cancer and then neurological problems, and my mother who had Alzheimer’s and lung cancer.
This recent period felt like a “pop quiz” reminder of what I learned then. Or perhaps continuing education, as there’s always new awareness to be gleaned.
2010-2013 was a long, arduous process of ultimately midwifing my mother (my dog, and later my father) back to Spirit. Each of them had their own exiting process, each had different circumstances and choices to be made.
It’s a shock when it first happens, and it’s easy to feel that things are out of control. When my mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s (right as we had finished paying off the dog’s cancer surgery), it was a breakdown in my own reality as well.
However, for the most part, I remembered to keep a higher awareness, while external circumstances seemed to crumble. It would have been easy to have collapsed in a heap, but reframing reality helped. This was *not* a crisis but an event.
|Joan and Dorothy, Washington DC, Sept. 2012|
I reminded myself that I was powerless over events and other people’s reactions to them, but not necessarily my own. I had choice over my actions (and response as best I could). I worked hard at being mindful, researching and asking for advice before making important decisions.
I also learned to not resist what is. I thought I could combat the Alzheimer’s, get her into a memory program, give her the right nutrition, do my energetic healing, etc. But it was like trying to stop a river with outstretched fingers. When she was diagnosed with cancer, and the initial treatment didn’t work, it shifted my focus to quality of life (rather than longevity).
It would have been a waste of energy to resist the little things, becoming my mother’s parent, her eventually confusing me with her older sister who died in 1997.
It was important to stay focused on the important things (creating moments of joy for my mother). And to stay in present time, as I was back in my old home town that I left in 1981 and interacting with some people who hadn’t talked to me in ten years.
I had to stay the grown up, the one responsible for life and death decisions, and do the next indicated thing that was best for all concerned.
This is all coming back to me as I observe my other dog age, and as this family member is navigating this part of their life path. It’s different now, I’m only peripherally in this family member’s life, and this current dog isn’t doing so bad for 105 in people years.
We all have (at least) two parts to ourselves. The physical personality that reacts to situations and runs off of memories tinged with emotions. And the greater aspect of ourselves, Consciousness, that encompasses the bigger picture.
When you see things from that bigger picture viewpoint, and can let yourself as Consciousness be the one that makes decisions and takes action, it’s so much easier to get through painful and traumatic times.
Your not in denial about what’s happening, you can still be grieving the loss of what it was like before, but you’re able to hold a bigger space, respond with greater inner authority.
We’re in traumatic times even if our daily lives are going well. The world seems to be falling apart, when it’s really Consciousness reorganizing reality.
Shift your perspective to Consciousness and you will inwardly know that all is very, very well.
When Your Past Revisits You ©2017 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
I found myself walking into the hospital yesterday to visit a relative. The last time I went there, they were in the emergency room and I almost couldn’t go in, I was having so many flashbacks to taking care of my mother and being in the hospital and sleeping in a chair in her room for 18 days with her.
This time I felt an energetic shift as I walked into the building. My body, my energy system, felt fully in the present moment. I was aware of the memories but detached from the intense emotions from that time.
|photo credit: Melissagarcia17|
It allowed me to have a pleasant visit with him, even setting up Skype so he could talk with his son.
This has happened in layers over the past few years. My mother went into the hospital in August of 2011 (first traumatic event). We went to the same hospital for laser treatment on her lung cancer in October. We went for a followup MRI in December where it revealed the treatment didn’t work. In February of 2012 she went on home hospice so we didn’t have to go there any more.
In June of 2013 my husband was hospitalized overnight for a suspected heart attack (it was an infection instead), and I was surprised at my visceral response. Different hospital, opposite side of the country, but even so.
And since then, there’s been three other hospital trips with different people, so I guess repeated exposure has helped de-sensitize me, and de-energize my memories.
For some people it re-traumatizes every time, and hardens into full blown resistance.
Today I see them as opportunities to release and let go.
Our past seems to revisit us but really the patterns are swirling about us all the time. We notice them showing up in our reality, because we’re passing through that pattern. It’s either unraveling or tangling, and we have an opportunity to respond differently.
When I don’t fight the memories, when I see the patterns as opportunities, I can soften to them and not get entangled.
When someone shows up in your story line from the past you can see them as an actor returning for a cameo role. Unless you want them to reenter as a returning cast member. It’s you’re show, you can decide.
Also, as you navigate your life from the perspective of Consciousness, you will notice that some people drop out of your life, because they’re no longer a vibrational match. You can view them as cast members who aren’t renewing their contract this season.
Just because your past is revisiting you, doesn’t mean that you are returning to a previous state. It’s like going home and realizing that your childhood house seems much smaller now. You’re bigger, and maybe no longer a fit for those circumstances.
Even if you want to go home, you’re not returning as the past person that you were. You get to be there in the present moment, as the adult and evolving Consciousness that you are.
Consciousness is expanding rapidly. We are experiencing frequencies accelerating at an unprecedented rate. There’s a lot of turnover happening right now.
Stay in present time and non resistance, and all this can be very enjoyable!
When To Hold On, and When To Let Go ©2017 Joan M. Newcomb
My dog Emma had a seizure and possible stroke this morning. She’s nearly 15 and her back legs tend to give out, so when I heard noises at 5am, I thought she’d lost her balance on the kitchen floor. Instead she was lying sideways, looking like she was running, except for the drool coming out of her paralyzed face.
We sat with her as it finished and tended to her for what seemed like hours as she regained her ability drink water and then to walk.
|Corentin de Chatelperron by Elaine Apa|
I flashed back to 2013 when our other dog, Basil, died very slowly, probably from a brain tumor. He’d had an operation in 2010 that was temporarily successful, but when it apparently came back at age 12 we let him complete his life at home. It was an arduous and unnecessarily painful death.
Today, however, I sat with Emma and did my Consciousness Techniques on her, helping her electrical system come back on line when the seizure completed, allowed for the bigger pattern to reorganize, and still was surprised how normal she was when we were able to get her into the vet.
Thinking of Basil, I’d also communicated with her that if this was time for her to go, it was okay.
Basil’s initial illness came during a breakdown-breakthrough time in my life, in fact the operation and the year long repayment for it, helped postpone any decisions. Which lead to my being able to go back East to help my mother the next year. It was a time to hold on. Hold on to Basil, hold on to my mother. Yet I also held on to the on line aspects of my business, my radio show and my phone consultations, while letting go of my Seattle office and in person classes, and wedding business.
2013 was a time of letting go. My mother finally passed in January. We came back to Seattle with a dying dog. Basil passed in April. We let go of our house on Vashon Island that October, and after we moved to Tacoma, I flew back East to help my father pass. There was also some holding on – my husband was hospitalized in July for what was thought was a heart attack (it was not).
The last few years have been a time of rebuilding, I started a new radio show with a cohost, I started Meetups around the Puget Sound, and I restructured my coaching business. It’s felt like a long time of holding on, holding space to provide stability for new growth.
I’m aware of the cycle shifting again, and I’m wondering what letting go is required. As I wrote this, I got the impression that a sailing analogy was called for. Except I’m not a sailor. So I Google’d “sailing terms” and found this:
If you’re sailing through life, you have to hold on sometimes, and sometimes let go. If the wind is coming at you, you have to let go of your sail, and the expectation that you’d get there as soon as you’d like. If you hold on at the wrong times, you can get blown over or go off course.
When the wind is at your back, you still have to let go of your sail or it could violently swing and the boom knock you over.
We’re sailing through the energy of life and it requires skill and intuition. Just like sailing a boat, there’s a whole body artistry to it, sometimes holding on and letting go at the same time.
There’s an expression sailors use, to “leave it on the wave behind”. Let go of whatever needs letting go of, hold onto what needs holding, and you’ll get there more swiftly.
How to Create Reality (a simple primer for manifesting as an Infinite Being) ©2017 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
Reality is created from the non-physical. It’s created outside of time and space. It’s created beyond thought, although thought has an effect. It starts with an intent, a notion, and is given form through focus. It is created by Consciousness or Source, and which is the spark of life in everything. That includes what we would deem as not alive. It may not have perceivable sentience, but it has Consciousness as it’s source.
It is all Consciousness, and we are Consciousness. Our life Essence is Consciousness. We are creating this reality moment to moment.
Reality is a spectrum and has different densities to it. What we see, physically feel, seems solid, is one part of the spectrum. There is a part that we sense physically that we can’t see, we may describe it as a place’s “atmosphere”. It’s a collective resonance contributed to by all life forms (this can include plants and animals, and historic events).
Emotions are unique to our physical bodies, it’s our body’s communication system, it’s our response to the world and we can create from this part of this spectrum. You can bring your desires into reality by focusing on the feelings they create in you. (We unconsciously bring what we *don’t* want into reality by being preoccupied with uncomfortable feelings)!
Thought is another way to manifest into form. What we think about regularly takes on density, Which is why visualization, affirmations, and vision boards seem to work so well. However, if the mind that is using thought to do this is coming from the perception that there’s something lacking, something wrong, etc. – that will show up in the manifestation as well. Which is why you may find there is always a loophole or a glitch in the things you try to consciously create!
Reality seems solid and real yet can shift in mysterious, magical ways. It’s only part of the program in this physical game, just as time and space are part of the structure. When we create from the emotional or thought levels, it takes time and space to bring things into form. They have to be constructed within physical rules. There’s a rhythm to this kind of creation, it takes two years for things to manifest into form from first conception.
When we create as Consciousness, it is very effortless. It is ‘outside the box’ manifesting. The timeline becomes less fixed and solid. Things can happen instantaneously. Things may seem random. They don’t come in predictable ways, they usually show up ‘out of left field’.
Bring an open minded intention to Consciousness and the results are more than you can possibly imagine. The qualities of Consciousness are playfulness, curiosity, neutrality. As Consciousness, you are lighthearted and amused. There are no mistakes and nothing is ‘bad’. This world is a game, a playground, an experiment.
At this level, we’re not ‘co-creating’, it’s the realm of unity, oneness, I-AM ness. Nothing influences You, nothing is more powerful than You.
As you go about your day, shift your awareness from your normal way of thinking. Start to perceive the world as Consciousness, the Essence of who you really are. See everything as your Conscious creation. Notice what changes when you do that.
Give yourself time to notice what that feels like, without trying, without effort. And watch how your life reorganizes around you without your having to do anything to make it happen. Things start to show up in your reality with delightful synchronicity. All you have to do is appreciate and enjoy the process.
Try thing for the next seven days and see what happens!
Enjoying Uncertainty (and Randomness) © 2017 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
Don’t we all love our routines. We want life to be predictable. We find comfort in the familiar. We go to astrologers and psychics to be told our futures, so we can be certain what it coming ahead for us.
Physical reality feels so solid. A mountain is a mountain, it’s going to be there, in the same place, day after day. The sun comes up every morning and it goes down every night.
|“Agua” Photo by Carlos Adampol Galino|
Our bodies feel dense, they move us about our day, they help us be here in the world. We enjoy the world through our body, taste, touch, sight, smell, we savor physical sensations.
We want things to stay the same, be predictable, and at the same time we get bored and want change. Not too much change. Maybe a change of scenery, by going on vacation. Maybe a change of routine by moving to a different dwelling or changing jobs. We like that level of differences.
But something bigger is happening, and it’s throwing us all off. We’ve had previews of this coming up. We’ve had shocking times when a relationship suddenly ends, or we get fired, or some natural disaster upends our lives.
This is different. Reality is speeding up and breaking down. It all looks very solid and real, it still feels very solid and real. And yet, at the same time, it’s malleable.
I’ve noticed this recently with time. I’m very time conscious. I’ll know I have about 5-10 minutes to do something before I need to leave the house. I’ll check my watch, my phone, my laptop, multiple times while I’m finishing my tasks. At the numbers don’t move. It stays 10:45am (or whatever time) until I complete what I need to do.
(That’s actually happening now as I write this).
It’s reflecting in daily life as well.
You’ve noticed times where you’ve had synchronicity, you think of someone and they contact you, you think of something and it manifests. You have a song going through your head and then turn on the TV and it’s playing.
And these things are happening more frequently, and in more extreme or bizarre ways.
Life is becoming more random and it can be uncomfortable.
I see these as reminders that this reality is a hologram, a creation of Consciousness. As we each embody greater consciousness, life becomes less certain but it’s not a bad thing.
It means that life is a game to be experienced and enjoyed. Approach each day with curiosity, and wonder. Respond with playfulness, improvise solutions.
As you start to navigate from this higher perspective, you no longer resist what’s going on in the storyline. Negativity stops being negative, no longer triggers you. In fact, entrenched stories completely transform. That awful boss either quits or becomes angelic, for no apparent reason. Your family no longer irritates you, you find them amusing.
Things aren’t happening to you, and nothing is more powerful than You are.
Relax into this new experience and observe reality reorganizing around you. Things you desperately desired you no longer care about. Situations you struggled to create suddenly happen effortlessly.
Inherently it’s a benevolent Universe. Inherently *you* are Consciousness. At your Essence, or as your Essence, you are creating all of this. And we love our creations. You are creating your Self, and You adore you.
You may be at the tipping point of this realization, afraid to take the plunge.
Come in, the water’s fine.
Psychic Kindergarten vs. Quantum University ©2017 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
My original training in metaphysics was at a mystery school that described itself as a psychic kindergarten. It meant that we learn by doing. Nothing was written down, it was conducted in an oral tradition, classes were experiential.
I always felt that everyone needed that basic training, especially from a young age. How would the world be different if we all learned how to manage our energy as children, connect with our inner wisdom, and the rudiments of manifestation?
|Laurel with a Yoda eyepatch
I still do feel that way, and there are a lot of people out there teaching these basic principles. This information is easily available to you. In fact, I recommend a couple great books:
You can choose to enter Quantum University, or play in Psychic Kindergarten. There’s nothing you *have* to do. You can just show up and see what happens.If you are ready to for advanced Masters level training in Consciousness, I have space now open in my Private Mentorship program, and receive my individual attention to create a complete transformation! Email me to find out if it is a fit for you!
How are You Experiencing the Earth’s Energetic Shifts? ©2017 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
I’ve been tracking shifts in reality for the past decade or so, and it’s fun to see scientific explanations show up in my storyline.
As I started ‘upgrading’ energetically, one of the most disturbing changes was the disappearance of the center of the Earth. I was teaching grounding in a meditation class one day, and went to connect to the Earth’s magnetic core, and it wasn’t there. For me there was just outer space, as if I’d gone straight through the holodeck and outside the Enterprise.
|NASA: Artist’s rendition of Earth’s Magnetic Field|
Grounding had been my foundational technique for thirty years. When I corded the center of the Earth from my root chakra, I would feel gravity increase. It helped me come into my body and feel more present. My body felt more secure when it was connected to the planet. And then it was gone.
Eventually, I adjusted. I came up with other ways to center in the hologram without being tethered to the planet. I discovered how to wirelessly connect into my body and into this physical reality in a way that wasn’t so dense. Instead of feeling increased gravity, I now feel this pleasant sense of buoyancy.
Recently, I taught these techniques to a couple of people and they reported feeling heavier. Hmm. So afterwards I played with using my original techniques again, and it just wasn’t the same. Everything is still lighter, and more diffuse.
Then I came across a YouTube video of Inuit elders talking about changes in their environment, and saying the earth’s axis has tilted. I wondered if this was part of what I’d been sensing.
More research revealed a report from NASA saying that polar shifts are normal, they take place over millions of years. However the shift has sped up in recent years, It is moving faster now, and “scientists estimate the pole is migrating northward about 40 miles per year, as opposed to about 10 miles per year in the early 20th century”.
The Earth wobbles fairly regularly, but another NASA report stated that “around the year 2000, Earth’s spin axis took an abrupt turn toward the east and is now drifting almost twice as fast as before, at a rate of almost 7 inches (17 centimeters) a year.” Which they find “puzzling”.
So, things are speeding up. Magnetic poles are shifting. The planet is responding. Our bodies are responding (since they’re our vehicle in physical reality).
Physical reality looks the same but feels different. There are different ways to balance and center now. Wireless connections, rather than cords, help me energetically center in this reality. Our bodies like feeling connected to the planet, so for some people walking barefoot helps. I don’t like being cold, so for me just walking outside (bundled up against rain and wind) helps.
This hasn’t gotten around to explaining how, as I walk, I notice reality shifting in an out of focus, and how, to me, it I sense moving in and out of parallel universes, but that’s for another article.
We’re Consciousness, experiencing this world of form, and our body is our vehicle. Notice for yourself how you perceive the changes going on, and what your body may find supportive.
Whatever helps your body feel balanced and centered, do it. And you’ll have a much more enjoyable experience. 🙂
Mastering the New Consciousness ©2017 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
We have already shifted to a new level of Consciousness, it’s just that not all of our bodies and personalities have come up to speed.
For one thing, reality looks the same. For another thing, reality feels completely different.
And in this new reality, many old paradigms no longer work.
|CCTV lens flare. Photo credit: Hustvedt|
Like when you upgrade your operating system, you have to upgrade much of your software.
In fact, most of the old ways of operating are now defunct. You can’t apply the old rules of power in this new reality. Your energetic engine has changed. Gasoline doesn’t work in your Tesla.
Your ego may value being an expert. It may value being the know it all, having all the answers, being better than and smarter than.
Yet in this new Consciousness, approaching things with a bigger’s mind is far more powerful. All the answers are available to you, you just don’t have to carry it around in your hard drive any more.
Power looks different as Consciousness. It’s inner power. It has clarity and a sense of well being.
There isn’t any competitive energy, because there’s the awareness that *everyone* is whole, capable, and Conscious.
Everyone, at their core, is Consciousness. Everyone is equally powerful. As we each grow in this awareness, there is more interconnectedness. There’s more teamwork. There’s networking. There’s interdependence and independence at the same time.
Having more stuff doesn’t carry any weight in this new awareness. In fact, heaviness has no place here. There’s no density nor effort.
At some point of development, manifestation becomes instantaneous. And, the urge to manifest, the urgency, is gone. It’s all about creativity. This world is a fun playground.
Conscious evolution happens in waves, there’s always individuals on the leading edge, bringing new information into form.
If you’re reading this, you’re one of them. You wouldn’t be drawn to this article if you weren’t.
While the rest are coming up to speed, it may feel lonely at first. It may feel like people don’t understand you or where you are at. That’s just the old patterns playing out, dissipating.
If you notice anything that “makes you feel” frustrated, powerful, reactive, rebellious, resentful, resistant – you are bumping up against old paradigm patterns.
Nothing is more powerful than You. That becomes apparent when you shift your perspective to seeing yourself *as* Consciousness, creating your reality, through this physical form, in this hologram, this game called life on this playground called earth.
You don’t have to go out there to change, fix or manipulate anything. As you navigate as Consciousness, reality starts to reorganize around you.
That doesn’t mean you can’t choose to respond to what is showing up in your reality. Maybe you feel like making a phone call and expressing your views or requesting an action. Maybe you feel like going out to stand or walk with people who share your interests.
But you’re coming from an empowered space, and responding to what is. It feels different to engage in the world this way.
Mastering the new Consciousness means acquiring proficiency with the new skills of navigating reality that is manifesting with a higher vibrational frequency than we’ve ever experienced before.
Really, it’s Consciousness mastering the new physical reality.
We’re going from wading at the bottom of the ocean, where our bodies felt like deep sea divers suits, to not-quite-astronauts in zero gravity on the space station. In zero gravity, force propels things away from you, or you away from what you’re going for. It’s a more subtle way of moving through the world.
As you move through your world this week, notice what is different. Take the time to shift your awareness and view things differently. Make different choices and responses.
Try this for the next seven days, and see how your life transforms!
Are You Creating or Destroying? ©2017 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
This planet is a playground, an adventure in density and effort. It is here for us to experience physical reality in all it’s glory.
The primary energies at play are creation and destruction.
If you look at nature, you see examples everywhere. Trees fall over in the forest and become hosts for new saplings. Waterfalls erode their rocky beds. Birds spread seeds, bees pollinate plants. And predators cull overpopulated prey.
Destruction is needed in nature. Forest fires release seedlings that otherwise would not grow. Volcanoes spewing lava create new islands. Destruction can actually be very creative.
It’s a fundamental truth that if you want to create something in your life, you have to destroy something.
We have tremendous ethics around destruction. It’s bad. When in reality, what may need to be destroyed in order to create, may be your limiting thinking.
Destruction feels like death, and in some ways it is. It may be death to an aspect of your identity. It may be death to a dream that wasn’t even yours to begin with.
If you want to expand, you have to knock down a few walls.
The energy of destruction need not be violent. And it need not involve other people.
Often when someone wants to expand in their lives, they think they have to destroy their current relationships. They think others are holding them back.
When you release whatever is inside you that is holding you back, often people around you change. You’ve released the limiting pattern and the people in your life transform accordingly.
Sometimes you shift to a new level and friends fade away, with new friends showing up. You don’t need to reject anyone, only those who match your new vibration are in your new reality.
People enmeshed in old paradigm power games don’t understand the gentle grace of Consciousness. Consciousness is bringing expansion, always evolving with benevolent intent.
As greater Consciousness comes into this world, old ways are disintegrating. Those who are strongly identified with dominance and limitation are having a difficult time right now. To them it feels like *they* are dying. They are fearfully trying regain structures that no longer exist, that cannot be held in this new world.
If there is something you’d like to let go of, you don’t have to ‘burn bridges’ or ‘kill your darlings’. Focus on what you’d like instead, and watch your reality reorganize itself to accommodate your new desire.
The new way of Creating as Consciousness is very subtle yet very profound. As you shift your focus, it shifts your energy, and what no longer has your attention will disappear from your reality. And what focus on will manifest.
It doesn’t have to be a perfect vision, in fact it often shows up more quickly when you focus on the feeling. When Creating as Consciousness it’s helpful to have broad intentions.
When you’re overly specific, you’re often resisting what you don’t have. Open-ended requests allow you to create more than you can possible imagine.
Play with this for the next week and see what happens!
Creating Moments of Joy ©2017 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
When I was caring for my mother who had Alzheimer’s, I got this book called “Creating Moments of Joy”. It specifically focuses on being in the present moment with people with dementia and celebrating whatever happiness you can have, right here and now.
It was an enormous relief not to fight what was happening, but to dance with her memory loss and the resulting behavior as the filters broken down. We savored the moments, sitting in the sunshine and going for drives in the countryside. And monthly field trips to the Kreeger museum that has a special program for people with memory loss and their caregivers. And, a couple times, before it became impossible, an evening at the theatre.
Those moments are highlights over the rest of that time, which was nearly unbearable, it was so painful. Yet when I look back, those are the times I remember the most, more than the others.
It seems to me life is a series of moments of joy, amongst times of challenges.
When we’re little, we flow from one moment to the next. We find joy in dandelions and butterflies. We cry when we scrape our knee. We laugh at silly things.
As we get older we accumulate more ‘scraped knees’, and carry the experiences with us. Rather than picture books of happy times, we’re galleries of war photos.
You can’t move forward, with your evolution as Consciousness, with such density.
In stressful times, you need moments of joy. It’s not being in denial about the awful things going on. It’s coming up for air once in a while.
The worst is coming out of the woodwork right now because we’re in a collective shift to a higher vibration of consciousness. It’s in the process of being cleared, as it’s exposed to more light it cannot fail to disintegrate.
It’s painful to watch. It’s reopening wounds, revisiting past trauma. Which is allowing us to heal our scar tissue. We can get through this by creating moments of joy.
Moments of joy can also redirect you out of misery. It doesn’t take very long to shift longstanding patterns and introduces new experiences of reality. Abraham Hicks says it only takes 17 seconds. You catch your habitual thoughts and redirect them.
When I manifested my now husband, l did this. I realized I’d been driving around thinking of all the terrible relationships I’d had. Which was creating an energetic inventory for the next relationship. So I deliberately focused on the qualities I wanted instead, and he showed up.
By creating joyful moments, you can created more of them. You shift your attention to what you want (without resisting what you don’t want), you bring it into existence.
There will always be things to resist. There will always be pain and unpleasantness. This planet is a dichotomy of beauty and ugliness, a playground of density and effort. We’re here to create, to bring our unique vibrations, to feel the feelings of the physical realm.
What moments of joy can you create today? Be on the lookout for opportunities. As you notice them, more possibilities show up. You’ll gradually rise up out of the current vibratory level to one of more wellbeing. And this has a ripple effect. It assists with the collective evolution. As more of us create moments of joy, the more joyous the world will become.
We Shall Not Regret The Past (Nor Wish To Shut The Door On It) ©2017 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
We’re engaged in an uncivil war.
In this time of fake news, and with even “real” news regurgitating complete falsehoods, it’s too easy to get taken off course by things that are deliberately designed to evoke an emotional reaction.
It’s exhausting and distracting and makes even the most enlightened of us forget that we’re Consciousness, we’re Infinite Beings creating our reality.
Trump’s heralding in a new age.
We are actually in a time of clearing and healing. There is greater Light in the world and it is revealing the most repressed darkness. All the ugliness that has come to the surface is being cleaned. Your home always looks worse when you’re deep cleaning.
It’s triggering each of us at our very core. It’s bringing up childhood memories and generational miasma. You can’t take this baggage with you to the next level of evolution.
Even as we are inspired to take action, we’re disempowered by our own”stuff”. We are at war in our minds, we have insane cabinet members in our heads who threaten to destroy the different departments of our lives.
The news may trigger us, but we’re creating our own drama and feeding it with our thoughts. When we stop fighting in ourselves or wrestling with scenarios, we can take clear action.
Years ago I was married to a covert cocaine addict. In order to regain my sanity, I needed to learn to detach from the emotional roller coaster. I made up my own slogan: “Don’t React Dramatically – Even If It Seems Dramatic.”
If I am triggered, if I am reacting with strong feelings, I am not in present time. I am engaging with a lie. What I am perceiving is not the truth.
I have lost control and I am fighting with the illusion.
We’re powerless over the illusion and we’re powerless over other people’s insanity. We’re powerless over what they say and what they tweet and what they sign. But we’re not powerless over our own voices, our own votes, and our own actions. We just feel powerless when wrestling with the insanity rather than the solution.
Where Real Power is.
We can regain our internal power in several ways. First, by stepping back and not engaging with crazy people or crazy headlines. Take time to respond rather than react. Take a break from the noise, turn off your devices and take a walk.
I always reconnect with Consciousness when I’m out in nature, even if it is just noticing trees on city streets. There is a power greater than Faux news. And You, at your Essence, are this power.
When you’re reconnected within, you become clear at what your choices are and how you can contribute.
Because this time is not calling us to be in denial or to go back into our caves or bubbles. It is calling us to be fully in our bodies and to participate. You can take truly empowered action when you’re aligned with yourself as Consciousness.
The Bigger Picture of What Is Going On.
The birth of a new era requires expansion and contraction. Progress experiences ebbs and flows. This feels like the past because we’re at a new level of releasing those old patterns. After we’ve cleaned the kitchen and the living room, we go upstairs. Just because the bedrooms and bathrooms are dirty doesn’t mean we haven’t been cleaning, we’re just on a new floor.
We’re not going to back to Nazi Germany because we’re America and our basic foundational pattern is freedom. We’re seeing these shadows of the past because they’ve come to the surface to be cleared.
We have checks and balances and we have an inherent sense of our rights. There’s more collective empowerment in this country than 1920’s and 1930’s Europe knew. You cannot control a country founded on rebellion.
Remind yourself that this is 2017, bring yourself into the present moment. In Present Time you are fully connected with yourself as Consciousness. This is where you can transform your reality.
This is where we shall not regret the past (nor wish to shut the door on it). Let the baggage of the past be archived. It’s not forgotten, it’s acknowledged as useful building blocks to where you are now.
I leave you with the Work of Byron Katie. There’s great revelations and relief in this video.
The Curse of Complacency (and the Gift of Desperation) ©2017 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
One of the times where we can get stuck on our spiritual path is when everything seems to be going well. We have enough to get by, just not enough to achieve our desires.
We’re not in complete survival, but we’re not completely happy or satisfied. But we’re so better off than (where we were, where others are, where we could be)…
It can actually be a pretty horrible place to exist. And people can stay here for years.
|Sweet Briar College, 1920|
Complacency is like a big, goosedown duvet covering you and your life – on a warm, summer’s day.
Sometimes we’re stuck in complacency as a result of trauma. We’re not really complacent, we’re numb. We’re afraid to move. We’re terrified of risking our status quo.
A clue to being in this state is – how clear are your dreams and desires? When we’re in fear, our vision for the future is a winning lotto ticket, prince charming, someone or something to instantly get you out of this situation.
When we’re complacent, we may not even have dreams and desires, we’re so disconnected from our essence. Everything looks just fine. What have we to complain about?
Sometimes, as Consciousness, we create an opportunity to break out of this state. Something disastrous happens. A betrayal, a layoff, an accident, a national disaster… it wakes us up.
Sometimes the opportunity creeps up on you, you develop an illness that forces you to tune into your body, a loved one’s addiction is revealed, shattering your denial.
Desperation can be a gift, it gets us moving. It gives you the energy to start making positive changes. You can feel more alive in an emergency, because you’re more fully present and alert.
And yet some people get addicted to the adrenalin rush of chaos and drama, and instead of breaking out of their rut they dig themselves in even deeper.
Complacency mustn’t be confused with the neutrality of Consciousness. At the highest level of Consciousness, there is no good or bad, you’re completely detached from pain of what is happening in the physical world. It’s like viewing the planet from the International Space Station, you’re just in awe of the beauty and wonder of the world.
As Consciousness, we provide opportunities to wake up, and no opinion if we choose to stay asleep. As Consciousness there’s no time, so no judgement of how long it’s taking.
However, our core purpose for being here is to experience life in the physical, and express ourselves as Consciousness. If we’re numb with complacency or spinning our wheels in continual crisis we’re not fully experiencing or expressing from Consciousness.
Now, when we’re in our bodies as Consciousness, it feels good. We’re enjoying ourselves. We inherently know it’s a benevolent Universe. We’re amused, we’re curious, we’re creative.
Our desires look different when we’re creating our life as Consciousness. We don’t need to be rich and famous. We are rich in relationship, we have prosperous lives.
Our own egos/personalities will hold us back, fearing that if Consciousness is in control, they will die. In truth, an aspect that we may have identified with will dissipate, but we will feel freer and more expansive afterwards.
When we operate as Consciousness, we achieve outcomes greater than old personalities could have imagined.
So if you’re in complacency and reading this, know that you have an opportunity to wake up without waiting for a breakdown. You can have a ‘high bottom’.
If you’re in desperation, use this information to propel you forward to new choices and actions.
You don’t have to know how to solve your problems or fix your situation, just take the first step towards the light. Intuitively step towards whatever feels lighter, brighter, clearer, more open. The light is You.
When you connect as Consciousness, you’ll find that the answers and solutions have been in You all the time.
Newfound Hope @2017 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
What Do You Really Want? And How Do You Really Make It Happen? @2017 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
We’re into the first weeks of January, New Year’s resolutions have been made and broken, visions have been created and forgotten, goals have been set and set aside. It feels like the year has begun with a giant belly flop. Why is this?
Most of us have no friggin’ idea how to keep our resolutions, or even create a vision for the year. If your resolution was to lose weight, your vision was to look like Chrissy Teigen or Ryan Reynolds. Or your resolution was to have more money, your vision was a winning lotto ticket. Or you want a relationship, your vision is to be married to Prince Harry.
There’s nothing in any of those resolutions, weight or money or relationship, that give you anything concrete to achieve. Those visions are unattainable, they’re wispy dreams.
We desire transformation and have no clue how to create it or support it. We want magic to happen, by wiggling our nose or blinking our eyes or waving a wand and shouting a spell.
Here’s the thing. When you desire something, as Consciousness you already have it. It’s in your reality. It’s just not in your body or in it’s experience of the present moment. It’s frustrating and confusing, because a part of you is already there. But the part of you that is here, isn’t there yet.
Magic happens when you’re lined up with yourself as Consciousness. But when we’re mired in the not-having of our desire, we’re far removed from ourselves as Consciousness.
We feel fat, we want to be thin. We feel poor, we want to be rich. We feel lonely, we want to be happily married.
We are in a time of embodying greater Consciousness. Manifestation is speeded up. But as long as we’re in the “not having”, that is what we manifest.
There are lots of books, blogs, courses out there for achieving anything you want. You can hire coaches. Most of them miss an essential element, which is you as Essence.
So you can lose the weight, get the money, attain the relationship, but you’ll still feel like something is missing. And that something is You.
When you start by aligning with YOU as Consciousness and take inspired action from your greater awareness, things unfold easily and effortlessly.
It starts with connecting with our true power source, which isn’t outside of us. Our greater self is within us. When we give Consciousness our focus, then things start to happen.
But here’s the caveat – when we align as Consciousness, and start living *as* Consciousness, our goals change.
Our smaller selves don’t want to give up our dreams (so they remain dreams). Our smaller selves don’t want to give up control, so they firmly grip the steering wheel (when they’re too small to look over the dashboard to the road ahead). And our smaller selves thing they’re gonna die if they align as Consciousness.
What really happens is, the ego doesn’t die, it just gets rightly placed, where it really is much more comfortable. The dreams transform, and they look different.
We may lose not lose weight, but like our body more. We may not win the lotto, but we have a prosperous life. We may not find Prince Harry, but we have a great relationship with ourself.
And here’s the big secret – even though our manifestations don’t look perfect, we are really, really, really, really happy with them.
And that’s what we’re really going for.
What Is Dying In Your Life? ©2016 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
This has been a long, hard year for many people. And we’ve had some significant deaths, as well. With the recent unexpected passings, I’ve joked that David Bowie and Prince are hosting one heck of a Sky Party.
And for those of us who are staying in our bodies, there have been other kinds of loss. If it hasn’t been material, or in relationship, it’s been within ourselves. Perhaps our world view has changed, or an aspect of our identity has gone. Perhaps we have lost hope, or inspiration.
|Chinese Opera, by Nova|
In the last couple of months some of these have been sudden and unexpected. We’re in shock, as well as grief.
For months now, I have been aware of an impending death in my life, and am not clear what it is. I’ve been rebuilding since 2013 (the year I helped both parents die, and also my dog, lost my uncle, my house, and my business effectively shut down).
I’ve also been aware of being at a tipping point, a sense of about to dive in, all-or-nothing. Which doesn’t entirely make sense to me, since I’ve always been resolutely committed to my work, which is my purpose and calling in life.
What this reminds me of, is when I did psychic readings and looked at people’s futures. Sometimes their future self would be right there on the timeline, pointing out what was going to happen. At other times, the timeline would disappear into a fog.
I had two interpretations for this image. One was that the person wasn’t meant to see what was coming up, they were supposed to stay in the present moment, otherwise they’d try to skip steps to achieve it. The other was that the future was still being written, it was still being designed.
I sense it is the latter for me. I am letting go of expectations and assumptions. Releasing effort, trying hard. It’s been several years of a lot of action, of running around giving it away, trying to reach as many people as possible. It feels like things are changing, my focus is narrowing to those who can show up and have the information. It feels like a return to creativity as well. I’ve had a couple books that have been waiting years to come out; perhaps 2017 is a time they will be birthed!
So what is dying for you? What is going away?
Collectively, I think we’ve moved to a new level of Consciousness, so anything of a denser vibration no longer exists in this new reality.
We can use this time to our advantage, to actively release that which we may perceive as dragging or holding us back. Perhaps you’ve been struggling with something for a long time. You can leave it in 2016, and let 2017 be a different Universe for you.
You don’t have to know the solution, or the answer. You just have to step into the space where it exists.
You may find that you haven’t lost anything at all (anything of significance is always stored in Consciousness) and instead gain a whole new world!
Acceptance Is Not Surrender, Ceding or Giving In ©2016 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
There’s a popular prayer that starts by asking for the serenity to accept the things you cannot change.
It’s a powerful statement. You are accepting what is, but not agreeing to it.
In accepting the situation, you are acknowledging the reality of it. You are not in denial that it is happening, you are not avoiding the reality. You are actually standing in your own power, while being powerless over other’s behavior or external circumstances.
Acceptance allows you to take action, to respond rather than react. You can make better choices when you’re not reacting.
|Glowing Flower with Sunlight, photo credit: Tbala11|
Now, there’s also an aspect of Surrender that doesn’t mean ceding your power, or giving in. It means you are not resisting the dominating energy. When you resist, you become rigid, you get stuck. You actually attract what you’re resisting. In non-resistance, the negative energy passes through. You can weave around it. It dissipates.
A few years ago I was in a situation that was intolerable. I was powerless over the outcome. I was powerless over other people’s behavior.
Others might have said, but you could have talked to them about it. This was your opportunity to speak out.
I did not waste energy fighting it or trying to change them. I placed principles before personalities. I focused on the bigger picture. I remained in integrity with my core values.
I was there to do something no one else could do, I brought my awareness of Consciousness to the situation. What unfolded was greater than what anyone there could acknowledge.
And so it is.
You may be going home for the holidays and dreading becoming enmeshed in the dysfunctional family patterns. You might be avoiding certain relatives because of painful memories.
You could be distracted by the news, by the current insanity in politics. You could be outraged by people’s refusal to be involved, or general unconsciousness.
You cannot change, fix, or manipulate the world outside yourself without getting entangled in it. You can detach, by stepping back emotionally.
You can accept that most people aren’t operating at optimal awareness. Most people are playing out invisible programming.
When you can see that and not resist it, you reclaim your energy from it.
You start to see the world through a different lens. You might actually be amused by it.
We have been through dark times before. There is too much light in the world nowadays.
The sun is more powerful than the night.
Stand in your own sunlight, shine in your own truth, and see how that transforms your life!
Don’t Give Up The Ship ©2016 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
When weather permits, I take daily walks for inspiration and to regain my connection as Consciousness. There’s a house on my route that has a flag hanging off it that says, “Don’t Give Up The Ship.”
I think about it’s message. Don’t give up. Don’t jump ship. Don’t give up the ship.
The ship, to me, is the body you have manifested in which to experience physical reality. We hit times that seem insurmountable, so incredibly painful that we can’t go on.
Yet if we do hang on, these times will pass. Life will get better.
Even if we can’t imagine how, or can’t know when.
As Consciousness, life is something to enjoy. We create being here for the fun of it, for the joy of it. To savor the sun on our face, the taste of chocolate, we love this world.
As Consciousness we are always aware of the bigger picture. We know this lifetime passes in the blink of an eye. We know we are always connected.
Those time that we hit a ‘point of no return’ in the physical, what is really happening is a dream is dying, an expectation of what it is supposed to be like, an aspect of our personality, our identity that we are attached to. Those things are dying, those limitations are breaking open and something bigger is coming in.
When I was sixteen, I was hospitalized for depression. I was there for three months and they released me with a bottle of antidepressants. I took the bus to my old high school and got a ‘dear Joan’ letter. I went to the McDonald’s next door and downed them all.
I was in so much pain I couldn’t think of anything else to do.
I was in a coma for three days. While I don’t remember having an out of body experience, I woke up exhilarated. (My mother thought it was from taking all those antidepressants).
So many things have unfolded in the years since then. So much love and many life experiences that wouldn’t have happened if I’d jumped ship.
Don’t give up the ship to depression or despair. The part of you that can’t see beyond the present circumstances is not the one who should be captaining the vessel. Let yourself as Consciousness do the steering.
It is as simple as shifting awareness to above the cloud cover.
However, it may take help to get there. These are tough times and you don’t need to get through it by yourself. Don’t be alone with your thinking. Be out among people who care and understand. Binge watch comedies.
For myself, on my daily walks I step through doors to parallel universes. I shift my reality to one where things are unfolding in my favor. To where everyone lives happily ever after.
When we navigate as Consciousness, we realize this is a benevolent Universe.
If we all try this, we can create massive change in our lives. Play with this and watch your collective reality transform!
Hitting Bottom ©2016 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
Sometimes your face has to hit the pavement before you turn around and look up.
Sometimes it has to get worse before it gets better.
We’re watching a group of people imploding because what they believe is true and real, is not. What they think is powerful, is not. They have no true foundation, so what they are building cannot last.
It’s scary to consider they could take the rest of us with them.
But maybe reality has to get just that insane, before we reclaim our power from it.
Do we have to step back and let it self destruct?
Non resistance is the most powerful form of protection. It’s when your energy is so light, so transparent, that negative energy passes right through.
Non resistance has also been a powerful tool for social change. Perhaps we need to access our inner Gandhi, our inner Martin Luther King.
In non resisting, we don’t feed the madness, we don’t participate with crazy.
When you have a loved one who’s an addict or alcoholic, you have to step aside as they are bottoming out. They need the consequences of their own actions. If you’re not going down with them, they can’t blame you for their bottom. But you can be there for them as they’re climbing back out.
It’s a different story when you’re dealing with a narcissist or abuser. There’s similar denial when you are entwined in their story, but it’s not as clean cut to detach and step aside. There’s no bottoming out for them. They’re focused on taking you out first.
The most dangerous time for someone in a domestic violence situation is when they are about to leave or have just left. That’s when they get killed. The abuse may have only been emotional or threatening before.
If an abuser is leaving, he created a campaign to assassinate your character. He spreads rumors, “she’s so cold and unfeeling,” “I’m leaving because of her mental cruelty” (when those adjectives really describe himself).
The best way to unfriend a narcissist is to ghost them. To slowly evaporate from their lives. Otherwise they’ll do a similar campaign.
In leaving an abuser you have to have a plan. Know where you are going, a safe environment, supportive people. It may take months, secreting money away, a suitcase of clothes, learning the legal implications and prepare for possible reactions.
Narcissists and abusers are extremely resistant to therapy. Narcissists are unable to look at themselves. Abusers feel entitled to treat people the way they do. They’ll pretend to respond to treatment and then revert back to their old behaviors the moment they have you back.
When I do the Skybox technique for this current reality, I look down at the field and it’s a riot in a rugby match. Players and fans rolling in the mud, the coaches and even the refs standing on the sidelines, arms folded.
Patterns are rising to the surface with the intent to clear and people are getting entangled in them.
I look for the lightbringers and they are dots in the darkness. They seem to be underground, yet creating a network of light.
The information I can access from the Skybox is that, although as players we may feel powerless over the situation, over other people, places and things, it is time to get in touch with out internal power.
As Consciousness we are infinitely powerful. How we hold our own amidst this chaos is to center into our internal power.
As we each do that, it changes the landscape.
When I move up to the Goodyear Blimp, to get a broader perspective, I see the patterns breaking up faster than anticipated. Those in archaic power structures scrambling to get what they can before it all disappears.
When I focus on areas of the field from this higher viewpoint, I can clear those sections. It gives me a sense of power (and knowing where the power comes from, my highest self, not my player self).
I bring that awareness down to the Skybox and it helps me looking down at the scrimmage on the field. I can see the lightbringers walking inbetween the players bashing each other, recognize the actions being taken to restore harmony to the field. It is the ultimate in non-resistance, not engaging with the fight energy but focusing bringing a different vibration to the whole.
I decide to join them, going down first to the sidelines, where I hear the coaches and refs talking. What I thought was inaction is really discussion and planning. Empowered movement is intended.
You can do this for yourself, for your situation. Go up to the Skybox and view your life from the bigger picture and gain wisdom from your higher self. You can bring it back with you in order to respond rather than react, and make choices and take action from more empowered stance.
I’m very curious to see what unfolds in the next few weeks.
Is Resistance Futile? ©2016 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
I woke this morning with the lyrics to “Do You Hear The People Sing” from Les Mis going through my head, and felt it was a commentary on the prevelant feeling throughout the world at this time.
“Do you hear the people sing? It is the song of angry men. It is the music of a people who will not be slaves again…”
People are angry. People are protesting. People are grieving. People are rebelling.
People are being called to action. They are speaking out. They are taking stands.
|Aikido July 2002 Chateau de Clairvans, Gerard Blaze et Dominique|
Then I remembered the scene in Les Mis, during the French Revolution, working class people manning the barricades. And they all got shot.
Is resistance futile? Do the big guys always win? Do our votes really count? Are our voices heard?
The energy of resistance usually attracts what you don’t want. What you resist, persists. So from that perspective, resistance is futile. It perpetuates you in the reality that what you’re resisting has power over you, is dominating you.
However, the energy of anger propels you out of the paralysis of fear. So if you are fighting something, that energy gives you the strength to take action and make changes.
The strongest stance, energetically, is non-resistance. That doesn’t mean that you accept the unacceptable. But it means you can’t be bullied or intimidated or triggered by whatever the other side does. You stand in your own power and negativity passes through without sticking.
Some forms of martial arts use non resistance to their advantage. When an opponent attacks, they respond in such a way that uses their energy against them. They step aside and the attacker falls over by their own force.
How can we possibly be non resistant to all the insanity going on right now? Wouldn’t that be staying in our ‘bubble’ of privilege, or being in denial?
Non resistance doesn’t mean not doing anything. It means to respond rather than react. It means standing back from all the noise and make conscious choices before taking action.
You can have strong feelings about things and still respond with non-resistance.
Bullies thrive on victims. Narcissists thrive on attention, even negative attention. Dominators aim to disempower people by getting them riled up and off balance.
We are all more powerful than we know. What is happening on the planet is that greater Consciousness is coming into form. That means your body is able to hold YOU, as Greater Consciousness, more than ever before.
Shift your perspective to your inner Essence and you will regain your balance.
Bringing Light Into Darkness (Now more than ever) ©2016 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
Many years ago, I worked for a small Church. One night I dreamed that I was outside the Church building in the dark, handing out fliers for our classes. Inside the Church, in the brightly lit staff room, was my co-worker, sitting on the floor with two students.
It pretty much sums up my role in life. I never get to be inside the place of light, I’m always outside telling people about it.
Lightbringers are her to bring Light, to carry the message that there is Light, which means we’re always venturing into the darkness.
It happens in relationships, too. They get involved with someone and it’s all hearts and flowers, then dark things come to the surface. It happens in jobs, they start working somewhere and corruption surfaces. Not because they found it, but their higher vibration shines light that makes darkness evident.
Someone emailed me the night of the US election, “where’s my Parallel Universe now???” Because in my Meetups I talk about how we have infinite parallel universes and you can change your present experience at any time by stepping into one where things are unfolding in your favor. It’s as simple as changing lanes on the freeway.
So I’ve been reflecting on why I’m in this universe, which appears really traumatic and suckky for the world, rather than one that’s more fun and empowering for all.
Because I’m a frigging lightbringer and of course I end up in dark places.
My message to everyone is, not just that there is light, but that you ARE light. You *are* the greater light of Consciousness. There is more Consciousness in the world than every before. Our physical bodies are capable of holding a higher vibration now, we can be more embodied as Consciousness.
This is why it seems that there’s greater darkness, because in actuality there’s greater Light. It seems like darkness, unconsciousness, corruption, demagogues, fascists, and dictators are gaining power but those patterns are in the process of dissipating.
Yeah, really?? Or are we heading into another 1930’s with the rise of Hitler, Stalin, Mussolini, and Tojo?
It seems that way, and the difference now is that there’s greater Light. We, individually, are more empowered than ever before. And our ability to communicate with each other is better than ever before. Arab Spring was started by a Tunisian street vendor setting himself on fire, but it was spread by Twitter. Which lead to the collapse of long standing dictatorships throughout the Middle East.
We may feel powerless, but we’re not.
We may not all be Lightbringers, blazing trails in the darkness. Our life purpose for some of us may be anchors or stabilizers (creating a container for the new energy to come into form). There are many expressions of Consciousness in this world.
And we are each Light. As we stand in our Light, the world becomes brighter. Darkness disappears in full daylight.
Change can happen quickly nowadays. We can transform reality instantaneously. Let’s do so now, and not wait to create an American Spring.
Now more than ever, your unique Light is needed on the planet. Be authentically yourself. Express your uniqueness into the world.
Your light joins our lights and collectively we accelerate the evolution of Consciousness. Try this for the next 7 days and see what happens!
It’s The End Of The World! ©2016 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
It seems catastrophic. It’s not what’s supposed to be going on. Terrible things are occurring everywhere. I can’t believe this is happening to me.
Sound familiar? Have you been thinking these thoughts? For many people, this is what reality feels like right now.
Crazy things are being reported in the news. It’s confusing. Frightening, even. We’re grieving the loss of what should be. Angry at what is. Scared of what could be.
It’s the end of the world as we know it.
|Reckless Company 1904 (Public Domain)|
I don’t like it either. I’m surprised at the weird shift in the time line. The wacky alt-Universe I’ve seemed to have woken up in. My body is resistant to it. I want to change, fix or manipulate it and make it different.
That part of you that feels powerless? That feels like it’s happening to you? That can’t imagine anything good coming out of this?
That’s your body. Your body only knows what it has experienced up until now. Your body sees things in terms of survival. It hasn’t lived the future yet.
When the story line shifts abruptly, it gets really upset. It feels like it’s going to die. It makes up stories based on what it sees or hears. It doesn’t have a the bigger picture.
The Essence of who you are, can see farther along the road ahead, knows there are more possibilities than just calamitous ones. It may even be amused by all of this.
It’s the part of you that is eternal so it’s not fearful it’s going to die. It’s here. To experience physical reality. It knows this is just a game. It finds this fun.
We’re collectively screaming with our hands in the air, forgetting that we’re on a roller coaster (not an airplane).
As Consciousness, you are creating reality moment to moment. A complex and beautiful world. The more Consciousness comes into form, the old, rigid, restrictive beliefs and concepts break down.
Your body may not be dying, but part of your identity might be. A reality you were attached to might have changed. This happens to us throughout our lives, every time we graduated and moved up a grade in school, every time we got into and then out of a relationship, started and changed a job.
This seems to be on a global scale, but what is it in you that is dying? What is it in you that is releasing? What loss is your body mourning?
For me, this past year has resurrected old family patterns that I thought had already died. I’ve been triggered as I see similar behavior played out in the news. I’m surprised to discover how I’m still entangled with them, how I’m still creating my reality through and from them.
If you’re really entrenched in them, these changes can feel seismic. What is your personal earthquake about? Where are you being shaken to your core?
Realize that you don’t have to stay stuck here. It doesn’t have to take years to work through this now.
When we were less Conscious, when we experienced less Consciousness, it took a long time for these things to change. Now they can shift in an instant (or overnight).
The more you operate as Consciousness in the world, the more sudden and unexpected things happen. The cosmic script writer part of you isn’t writing an adaption of War And Peace or Les Miserables. It’s sweeps week and a reality show. Expect plot twists.
If you want to win an Oscar, by all means go for it. Wrestle that bear. As Consciousness you’ll enjoy every minute of it.
If you don’t want Grizzly drool on your costume, shift your perspective to Consciousness’ bigger picture. You’ll see things with joy and wonder, curiosity and amusement. You’ll respond differently.
It’s not the end of the world, but the beginning of a new reality.
Bizarro World ©2016 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
It has been a strange week. In the US, we had a surprise outcome to the election (although I feel the surprises aren’t done, keep reading for more). Tuesday evening, while the votes were still being tallied, someone emailed me that they were losing their shit. “Where’s my Parallel Universe now?”
Well, the Parallel Universe I’m in feels pretty bizarre.
|Electoral College 1824 by MB298|
Here’s what I know:
When we begin to live life as Consciousness, weird and inexplicable things start to happen.
As Consciousness, there is no good nor bad. It’s all about experiences.
If you are experiencing negativity or limitation, that is your “player self” (I also call it body /personality).
If you are experiencing infinite possibilities, that it is a benevolent Universe, that’s yourself as Consciousness.
Our “player self” is resistant, rebellious, wants to change, fix or control things. And it can’t, so it feels powerless.
Consciousness is neutral or amused. Consciousness is also playful and curious.
You can create change in this reality *if* you are playful and amused and curious about the outcome. If you are trying hard, using a lot of effort, setting really specific intentions, you may build something that becomes real, but there will be loopholes or something wrong.
Here’s what I’m intuiting:
That there’s a lot that can change between now (November) and the inauguration (January 20th). We aren’t on a predictable path.
As Consciousness increases, it exposes the darkness, so it seems like there’s more of it, but it is in the process of disintegrating.
It’s no use directly fighting (or resisting) the darkness. That’s just shadow boxing. What dissipates the darkness is more light.
Now, Consciousness is continually in motion, and plot changes can happen at any moment.
This morning I was wondering what was going to unfold in the next few months, and I came across a video on the Electoral College, which is the group that actually elects the president. They don’t vote until December. 19th. I posted on Facebook yesterday morning that maybe this is why we feel something is “off” and it hasn’t happened yet.
Two hours later there’s a petition going around to make the Electoral College vote differently.
As I type this, it occurs to me that other things could arise to make this happen. The elected candidate is embroiled in lawsuits. More things could arise to change the outcome.
I remember years ago when someone was re-elected, I thought ‘it has to get worse before it gets better’. And it did. But that pendulum-swinging is an old paradigm cause-and-effect. We’ve shifted into the quantum world of randomness.
Just because we’ve had 8 years of progress doesn’t mean we need to swing back to balance. Anything is possible.
This is happening globally as well. Britain voted for Brexit, with a lot of loud regret after it happened. Their PM resigned and a new one stepped up to accelerate the process. A lawsuit called for it to require a vote by Parliament. So now it may unfold differently.
Here’s what you can do:
Take your focus off the drama, doom and gloom. Bring your attention back into yourself, into your Self as Consciousness.
Shift your awareness to one of curiosity and amusement, like you are viewing this as a reality show (which it is).
If you want to set intentions, do it with open ended statements. “Everything is unfolding in my favor.” “The Truth is coming to light.” “Everyone in my hologram is living happily every after.” (this allows for outcomes beyond your limited imagination).
Then release it, go forward with your day, notice what is different (subtle changes validate that you’ve made the shift as Consciousness and keeps you unfolding in the new direction.
Wouldn’t it be fun if everyone did this?
I’m curious to see what happens.
When Reality Breaks Down ©2016 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
If you look around you, what you see is physical reality. It’s been measured, poked and examined. We see rocks and dirt and trees. We’re told they’re made up of atoms and molecules. Different combinations of molecules make up rocks than dirt, water and air. Fascinating to think that scientists eventually measured something invisible like air, and discovered that oxygen has it’s own form of solidity. Air is thinner in high altitude places.
|Barite, photo credit: Strekeisen|
And then we acknowledge emotional patterns, they’ve been measured, poked and examined. We recognize that behavior patterns in families go back seven or ten generations, beyond what most of us know about our genealogy. We think we’re being unique and new and yet on one level we’re just replicating patterns.
Thought patterns have been around for millenia as well. It’s said that there’s never been an original thought. We read ancient philosophers and their comments are surprisingly modern. The mental level is another part of the complicated construct that is the hologram as we know it.
Our beliefs, our concepts, color the way we view reality. We think our religion is the right one until we get to know people that believe something totally different and realize they’re pretty good folk and maybe their soul isn’t going to hell after all. We think our family is one way until a family secret gets exposed and our reality is shattered.
Shattered is a good way to describe what it feels like when your pictures of reality disintegrate. It’s like the scaffolding of your life is withdrawn, and things collapse inside. Anyone who has been through a divorce knows this. Ways you define yourself, your identity, get removed and it is very disorienting.
When you take away those belief constructs, what you have left is physical reality, which is why nature feels so restorative. It simply is. It’s a break from the insane overlay of human dynamic.
We’re starting to experience what’s beyond the invisible, beyond what can be measured and examined. When you bring out the microscopes (or the telescopes) you can’t see it.
It’s been philosophized about, but you can research research all the religions and cultures in history and only get a minute sense of what we’re experiencing today.
We use euphemisms for this, Light and Truth, but words can’t fully explain what is happening.
It’s how an aquarium of fish must feel when a hand reaches in and moves the ornaments about.
Except we’re not fish, although our bodies are. And we’re not separate from the hand. We are the hand.
Consciousness creates reality by focusing. Focusing creates density. There is a spectrum to it, but not the separation we believe. It’s all Consciousness focusing into density.
In density we experience time and space, a historic storyline to our reality. We feel like this has been this way forever. When Consciousness shifts focus, we feel it. Greater Consciousness comes into form and we feel more real. And what’s not real seems to break down and go away.
Hands in the fish tank stir up all sorts of muck and mire, which gets siphoned out to clean up the water.
What’s going on around the world is a kind of rearranging of the fish tank, a siphoning up of the muck and mire that no longer serves us. The untruths that people have clung to as reality.
As Consciousness comes more into form, we sense our unity (because we’re all Consciousness). We also sense our individual power (because as Consciousness we are infinitely powerful). So on one hand we’re experiencing more of a collective connection. We see how we are ‘better together’, how we can help one another. And on the other hand we are rebelling against anything that impedes our personal sense of autonomy. This planet is such a delicious dichotomy!
And anything that is the opposite of Consciousness, dominance vs empowerment, divisiveness instead of individuality, unity instead of identical… is what is going away.
You can sense the difference. Consciousness feels good. It feels expansive. It feels joyous. When you’re operating from Consciousness you feel lighthearted, clear, confident. Unconsciousness feels constricted and limiting, fearful and powerless.
It’s a component of this world that is very evident right now. It is being illuminated as Consciousness comes into form. It’s in the process of being cleared. Our shadows are being exposed but will disappear in full sunlight.
It can be very uncomfortable as the muckiness of humanity comes to light. We think that other aspects of reality will erupt and break down as well. Our bodies aren’t dying but aspects of our egos are.
If you are experiencing any breaking down in any aspects of your life, the discomfort is palpable. It will pass, but it may take time. It will be a relief as the distortion dissipates.
The greater aspect of yourself *is* Consciousness, and that part of You can coax the little you through this.
Be easy with yourself. Implement super self care, doing self comforting things. Take time to step out in nature and just breathe.
This is the darkness just before dawn. We are huddled ‘neath our covers wanting our last bits of sleep. But waking up is a wonderful thing. Come into the sunlight, a joyous world awaits.
What is happening when NOTHING is happening? ©2016 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
We’ve all been going through tough times. Growing pains. And for many of us, no matter what we do, we don’t seem to make any progress.
It just feels like one obstacle to surmount after another, and it doesn’t matter what we try, we’re just getting nowhere.
|Field in Raszkow, Poland, photo credit: Jacek Halicki|
Here’s the thing –
We are all Consciousness manifesting into physical bodies. As Consciousness, things are easy and effortless. Our bodies experience density and difficulty.
Now it is possible as Consciousness to instantaneously transform. You can go from being stuck in a traffic jam to whizzing along to your intended destination just be shifting yourself from your current Universe to one where everything is unfolding in your favor.
When you’re creating on a body level, it takes longer. Our bodies exist in time and space, where change is an evolutionary process. You plant seeds, water them, wait for them to sprout.
Nothing is ever not happening, but sometimes it takes a while for change to become evident.
You might be going through soil prep (and experiencing a lot of fertilizer in your life). You may have seeds you’d forgotten you planted, germinating beneath the surface.
Or if you feeling burned out, your field may be laying fallow. You may need a period of rest before your field is ready to plant again.
When you stop doing, you can start being. Creating as Consciousness comes from a state of being.
It’s a completely different approach to manifestation.
It doesn’t mean sitting on your meditation cushion for hours every day chanting yourself into a state of Beingness.
It means stepping into the reality as Consciousness where you already are the changes you want to experience.
There is *a lot* going on in the world right now. People are experiencing extremes – extreme emotions, extreme challenges, and being affected by other people’s extreme stresses. If you’re feeling that right now, do yourself a favor and take a time out.
It may be ten minutes to go outside and walk around the block. It may be turning off your phone or TV – a “media break” for a period of time. If you listen to music, maybe give yourself a period of silence.
You don’t need to be knocked about by external forces. They may be distractions that keep you from focusing within, where real transformation can happen. When you take your focus off the external world and tune into your internal world, that’s where you can experience Yourself as Consciousness.
As Consciousness you know that there is enough, and that you are enough.
Bring your attention back to yourself and you might discover that there’s no need to “do” anything. You can appreciate all that is going on without your efforts. You’ll know, within the fiber of your Being, that all is very, very well.
Birthing The New You ©2016 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
Last night was pretty phenomenally uncomfortable. I woke up feeling constricted with competition. It was such a surprise to me, because I don’t operate on that level any more. My work is so new, the focus is different, that it doesn’t compare to what anyone else is doing. It would be like a runner competing with a hang glider. Different sports, different areas.
I’m not certain whose reality I was experiencing, but I would dearly love them to know –
Playing in the realm of Consciousness, you realize there’s plenty for everyone. There’s space for everyone to succeed. There’s enough time, money, love.
|Newborn in Nepal – photo credit: Krish Dulal|
This world may seem rigid and finite, an adventure in Density and Effort, but when you’re playing as Consciousness, you realize that it’s all malleable. Time expands (or contracts) depending on your focus. Money is infinitely available (and usually comes out of left field rather than from the direction you’re expecting it). You are enveloped in Love. You ARE Love. There is always enough.
Even if you’re not feeling it right now, your inner Self knows it.
What it feels like now, is that we’re going through a collective Quickening. We’re feeling our creation kick. Their foot may actually be stuck under our ribcage. It’s when your pregnancy goes from just being morning sickness and weight gain, to the awareness that there’s something alive growing within you. It’s exciting and a little terrifying.
For some who have felt this evolution longer, it may be actual Transition. The most intense phase of labor, the most painful part as the baby is moving out through your cervix to slide down your birth canal.
In my two pregnancies, which were both at home and without drugs, when labor started I thought, ‘I’ve changed my mind!’ Whoops – too late. The baby is coming. Your body knows what to do. Breathe and relax and push when you’re in Transition.
You are giving birth to your New Self. The Greater Aspect of You is coming into form. It is powerful, it is exciting, it is thrilling and, yeah, a bit scary.
You’ve been going through contractions as you hit your internal limitations, all the programming and patterns created to convince you that you’re the opposite of who You truly are.
The world has been reflecting this, as people are having meltdowns, people are losing their shit, archaic beliefs are rising up, people are collectively crying out, no longer tolerating the intolerable.
When you don’t resist what is breaking down, when you don’t hold on to what is disintegrating within your fingers, you can enjoy this process so much more.
What’s on the other side of this is glorious. It is a love more profound than you can imagine. It is a greater relationship (with your Self) than you could have thought possible. It is the life of your dreams.
You are birthing You, you are magnificent, and adorable. You are loved, loveable, and worthy of love. You are surrounded by support. Everyone who shows up is a midwife or a doula to your new experience.
Relax, breath, and see what happens!
Denial and Delusion ©2016 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
It’s been a painful week. I think the majority of people (at least in the US, but I suspect it is showing up in different forms around the world) are suffering major post traumatic stress.
This has been coming in waves throughout the year, although it’s been going on for longer. I’m certain there’s an astrological explanation, maybe the Pluto-Uranus square, whatever.
|Sunrise on Sea, photograph by Bogdan Giuşcă,Romania|
We’ve had increasing light shone on things that we are no longer tolerating. Bigotry, racism, sexism, misogyny, abuse, assault…
The debates were traumatizing, watching someone point fingers and accuse the other person of the very things they had actually done or said, that they were currently on trial for. The abuser always accuses others, making themselves out to be the victim. Crazy making behavior.
Denial is strong. Someone claimed that God was going to work through their flawed candidate. Perhaps God sent him to bring all this up, not to have him in office?
People denying things said on tape, and on video. People living in delusion, lying to themselves.
This time, however, the pushback is strong. Women speaking out about unacceptable behavior, sharing their stories of assault.
You could feel the collective rising up of the issue, bringing the hidden to light.
But what really struck me was the men standing up in outrage, they don’t say things like that, they don’t treat women that way, they don’t think that way.
Little chinks of old patterns started falling away inside myself.
There are men in this world who treat women with respect. Men who are naturally faithful. Men who are loving to their daughters.
This is a time when the Truth is coming to the surface. Not ‘truths’ people tell themselves, but the light of Truth is coming in and dislodging whatever is the opposite.
For survivors of any kind of violence, observing the gas lighting by an abuser, the stories his supporters are telling, is excruciating.
If you were hit without warning, or verbally berated as a child, that was abuse. That was domestic violence.
For those of us that grew up in households like that, coming out of denial is quite painful. There’s a huge ‘no talk’ rule. Those who speak up are blamed instead.
For people who are comfortable sitting in the dark, the light hurts their eyes. Something is wrong with the light bringers.
This isn’t stopping however. We’re in an evolutionary shift. The light will continue to increase. We will continue to grow in awareness.
As we experience ourselves as Consciousness, pain will be replaced with love. Constriction will be replaced with expansion. We will breathe easier. We will stand taller.
It will be okay for us all to be in the light, and take up space.
Ethics, Values, and Morals (and Consciousness) ©2016 Joan M. Newcomb, CPC
“A person who knows the difference between right and wrong and chooses right is moral. A person whose morality is reflected in his willingness to do the right thing – even if it is hard or dangerous – is ethical. Ethics are moral values in action” from http://managementhelp.org/blogs/business-ethics/2012/01/02/what-are-values-morals-and-ethics/
An exercise I do with new clients is called ‘Values Clarification’. It helps them determine their top 5-10 values and then they’re able to use it as an assessment for how satisfied they are with their lives. It is also a tool for making choices and taking actions. If you have a high value on relationship but you spend your days debugging software alone in your office, you’re not going to be very satisfied with your job (no matter how much Microsoft pays you).
Values are one thing, but ethics and morals brings the conversation to a new level.
|GPS Photo by Darren Meacher|
Consciousness is neutral. There’s no good or bad from the perspective of Consciousness. This confuses people. If that’s the case, then I can just start careening down my path treating people like shit and stealing from the government (“taxes, I don’t need no stinkin’ taxes”). Because I AM Consciousness and this is all an illusion so it doesn’t really matter.
The mind that is thinking that way isn’t Consciousness.
True, Consciousness is neutral. Consciousness is impassive. Consciousness doesn’t get caught up in drama or detail. Consciousness is also Love. Consciousness loves *everything* and *everyone*.
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Although it is all an entertaining creation to Consciousness, it doesn’t mean it’s not real. I love my plants, my pets, including my fish tank. I created them to be in my life. I love my kids, I manufactured their bodies but they are taking their lives and running with them. And I feel unconditional love for them, regardless what they do.
…that’s the parental perspective of Consciousness…
When I truly step into the perspective of myself Consciousness, the creator of my reality, it’s a little different. I feel no need to try to change, fix or manipulate the hologram I’ve created to experience physical reality. I don’t need to treat people like shit, if anything, I feel Compassion, because we are all Consciousness.
As Consciousness, I’m One, so for fun, I’ve created individuality, the sense of otherness. You could say this whole world is Consciousness playing with itself.
So the right and wrong thing. Although there is no right or wrong as Consciousness, there is light and dark in the physical realm. You navigate this using your inner Moral compass.
This Moral compass gets distorted much the same way as a little boy scout’s compass can be affected by magnets. It’s not pointing true north if you’re feeling extreme emotionalism. If you’re feeling that others are wrong when you are right. That’s not your moral compass, that’s your body/ personality/ intellect/ mind.
I know I’m navigating with my moral compass when I feel clarity. I may love this person but if they’re sleeping with someone else, it’s pretty clear we’re not in an exclusive relationship. I’m pretty clear I want an exclusive relationship. It’s a simple choice to step away from that relationship so I can create the space for what I want.
I may love my family of origin, but I feel insane around the old family behaviors. Clarity helps me with boundaries, how to navigate the holidays. I can go to the family dinner on Christmas eve but I can’t do breakfast the next morning with them.
When you align your body/ personality/ intellect/ mind with yourself as Consciousness then your sense of right and wrong becomes clear. Your Moral compass is clearly about You and how You want to navigate life.
If you’re staring at someone else’s vehicle, you veer into their lane. When you as Consciousness are driving, your eyes are on the road – your path – ahead. You don’t need to change how other people are driving.
It feels better to live life as Consciousness. It feels better to stand in the light. It feels better to have clarity.
Notice how you are navigating. Are you steering towards the shadows? Are you tailgating someone who you think is a terrible driver? Is your blinker on or tabs expired?
It’s pretty simple to shift your perspective, it just takes doing it.
Try this for the next few days and see what happens!
The Deva of Money and Morphic Fields ©2015 Joan M. Newcomb
This morning I had a little chat with the Deva of Money and I thought I’d share it with you.
Devas are the unseen architects of Nature, they design things to be brought into physical form. They hold qualities and communities as well. There’s a Deva of Broccolli that oversees all the brocolli plants on the planet. There’s a Deva of Patience that you can talk to in Friday afternoon commuter traffic. There’s a Deva of the country that you live in.
I know of someone who personafies the Deva of Money with a sexual connotation, which works for them. For me, it feels entangled with cultural history of women being dependent on men financially.
The Deva of Money, as I feel it, is light, bright, clear and impersonal, like the ocean, like God. The ocean is not vindictive, the ocean takes and gives, the ocean provides for wildlife and the planet.
You fall in the ocean and drown, it’s not murdering you. Sharks eat you, they are feeding, being sharks. Your alertness keeps you from falling in the ocean, but what about boats going down, what about hurricanes and typhoons? Weather is not personal, it is patterns, it is part of the interweaving design of this world.
Many of us are entangled in the morphic field of poverty and deprevation, lost in the “funhouse mirror” maze of distortions.
The Deva of Money invites you to come out, come into agreement with the flow.
Wealthy people grok the flow, yet multiple flows are happening all at once, which is why they can be assholes and rich, or why they can be personality deprived and opulent. They may be focused on money but not in integrity with relationships.
The game on this planet is to experience life, the game may or may not be coming into balance. it may be a goal in the game, we all get to set goals as part of the game.
All your feelings about money, all your opinions about rich people, distance you from having it in your life.
This week, sit and tune into the Deva of Money for yourself. Notice your first impressions. What does it feel like, look like, sound like, smell like, ??
Have a conversation with it. Have a pen and paper handy, jot down what you think it’s communicating with you (unless you’re extraordinarily clairaudient, you may get visual images or thought/ideas rather than actual words).
Dance with it energetically this week, and see how your life transforms!
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Feeling Other’s Emotions ©2014 Joan M Newcomb
Empathy – the ability to feel other people’s feelings. Many of us have the ability to feel other’s feelings, we just don’t know it! Or if we do, it feels like a burden.
Empaths are very sensitive to their environment. They feel the energy of restaurants and offices, parties and gatherings. It can be challenging to drive down the freeway, when you sense all the accidents that have happened there!
If you feel an emotion out of the blue, not connected to what is going on around you or in your life, it’s probably someone else’s. You can pick up loved one’s feelings, even if they’re 3,000 miles away.
Feelings that don’t make any sense, that feel really intense, are usually someone else’s communications. They are emitting how bad they are feeling.
Sometimes they come in on familiar channels. You may allow them in because they’re a friend or loved one, Or they may remind you of a family members.
Sometimes it’s just proximity. The guy in the apartment above yours has been laid off and is really depressed. Even though you are happily employed, you start having a hard time getting out of bed in the morning.
People who aren’t empaths will say, that must really be your emotion, you’re just in denial, but I disagree. If you live in an apartment building with too thin walls, you’re neighbor’s rap music at 12am is not your bedtime listening choice!
You have no control about other people’s remittances but you can, believe it or not, control your ability to receive. You can ‘dial down’ your emotional ‘hearing’. You can zip up the front of your chakras to help protect your space. Imagine your lower chakras being like volume dials, and turn them down.
This may be hard for some people to do. Their empathic ability protected them growing up. Perhaps they had a parent that was unpredictable. They never knew what mood they’d be in when they came home. But they could feel them coming, and knew when to stay out of the way.
People communicate with feelings, a mother may have a hard time turning down her empathy with her children, even when they’re adults. It’s important to know if your infant is in distress, but less so to feel the anxiety of your twenty-something preparing for their graduate exams!
We mistake empathy for compassion. You can feel compassion towards someone who’s suffered a shock, a loss, but it doesn’t help you help them if you’re expressing the same intensity of grief.
If you’re rescuing a drowning man, you need to keep your own head out of the water.
Society places great expectations that we match the energy of groups. If you’re actually able to be a half-step above the emotional energy field, you can be accused of being cold or unsympathetic. You might, however, be the only clear-headed one in the crowd, able to lead the way out of darkness.
As an empath myself, my biggest revelation has been that I get to set my own energy level. I can decide to be a different vibration. I can imagine my aura to be a different color, I can see myself vibrating a half step above. I can allow a sense of amusement for whatever black comedy I’m engaged in.
Truth *and* Consequences ©2013 Joan Newcomb
This morning I had a reminder: You can’t help someone if they don’t want your help.
It’s been challenging, because my empathic abilities have been amped up recently, so I’m feeling the emotional realities all the people I know who are in crises of one sort or another.
But I can’t help them quit smoking, or de-stress, or stop being codependent or whatever. Most people need to learn from their own mistakes. The best I can do is step out of the way to let them have the consequences of their actions.
Some loved ones create painful realities that you wish you could rescue them from. That’s invalidating to the Being who created it.
Everyone is an Infinite Being having a human experience. Therefore, *everyone* is capable, and magnificent, and already knows everything they need to know. They are creating their reality, down to the smallest detail. Even your involvement in their storyline.
So the person with health problems who persists in smoking is an extremely capable being. They are creating the storyline exactly the way They want to.
On a Being level, they are delighting in their creation. It’s like a screenwriter chortling with glee over his keyboard, as he comes up with a new plot twist for his script. They’re not a drug addict or cancer victim, they’re an actor going for an Oscar winning performance.
You can’t take that away from them, but you can admire them for their creativity. You can trust they’ll figure it out in the end. The end may not be the way you would have written it, but yoau aren’t their screenwriter.
That doesn’t mean abandoning your loved ones. You can write people in (& out) of your storyline. You can’t go barging onto their soundstage without their having written you into the scene.
Often people do much better when you leave them alone. Leaving others to their own consequences is a great opportunity to bring your focus back on yourself, and bring your energy back into your own creations. You are Infinite and Capable and writing Your own life.
Imagine how different your life would be with 100% of your energy and attention flowing into it. In fact, that’s all you have to do to get started, is imagine withdrawing your energy from all the people and places out there, and bring it back into your own ‘energy pool’.
Try that, whenever you think of it, over the next 7 days and see what happens!
Do Dead People Have Jobs? ©2013 Joan M. Newcomb
Just got off the phone with my cousin in Maryland. She’s an art teacher, so very creative, and living solidly in the ‘real world’. It’s always so interesting to chat with her, she asks great questions, which surprise me, because I forget what it’s like not to be acutely aware of the unseen.
Her mother died last September and mine in January, so the conversation naturally winds up talking about them. She asked if I missed my mother and I said it’s a funny thing, because when I do, it’s usually because she’s around. I said it must be frustrating for dead people because when they show up to visit, people start crying!
Also, my mother’s energy feels so very clear. It’s her Presence, which was so very lovely, not the Alzheimer’s who stubbornly wouldn’t come out of the bathroom!
My cousin’s mother had been a difficult personality, and yet she’s able to recall the sweet moments with her. I think that’s her mother’s Essence, which had been hard to detect when she was alive. Our personal histories shape us and can distort the transmission of our True Selves.
When bodies die, that aspect of character goes too, and what remains is our Consciousness.
Then my cousin surprised me by asking if we have jobs in the afterlife. “Jobs” is such a limiting concept. I think it’s more that we have purpose. I’ve read people who’ve lost children, and their beings show up as healers or angels in the family dynamics. We’re pure energy, so without a body it’s more like we emit our purpose.
So it’s possible to come back as a guardian angel? She asked.
To me, the idea of ‘coming back’ is a funny one, as they’ve not gone anywhere. Imagine that we’re all driving around in Smart Cars, and we have the agreement to only see other people in Smart Cars. Then one of us dies and steps out of their car. They haven’t gone anywhere, but no one is acknowledging them!*
They may seem to come and go, but it’s more like coming in and out of focus. When my friend died in 2003, I became aware at first they were having difficulty seeing. I thought it was because they’d needed glasses. But their body was gone, the eyes were gone, it was that they were having difficulty adjusting to seeing pure energy. If you close your eyes and imagine yourself somewhere, if you don’t intellectually visualize, you’ll sense the energy of the place. Although it’s actually 1000x brighter and more pixelated.
I explained to my cousin that when we die, it’s like diving into pure, positive energy. It’s light, it’s freeing, we’re everything and everywhere at once. It’s the exact opposite of how we see things.
Being in the physical world is like deep sea diving. We’re lumbering through density, it feels like water. Our vision is distorted by the helmet. The world is darker, the lighting is dim.
When we pass, it’s like being plucked out of the water into pure oxygen. Imagine taking a breath of fresh air!
Then my cousin wondered if we keep learning after death. Again, a limiting concept, a projection from the world of form. It’s our bodies that need to learn and grow. When we die, we integrate into Infinite Intelligence.
Actually, there is always an aspect of Us that Is Infinite Intelligence, we never leave from one place and go into the other. Just a portion of ourselves squeezes into form, and then pops out when we’re done with this lifetime. There’s an aspect of you that is always connected. Always connected with those you’ve loved who have passed. Alway connected with your Infinite Wisdom.
It simply takes a shift of perspective. Instead of viewing things from within the ‘deep sea diver’s suit’ of physical form, allow yourself to view things as Spirit, as Essence. It’s immediate expansion.
*I’m being reminded my both my mother & my cousin’s, that dead people loved to be communicated with. No body talks to them any more, is a common complaint. It’s very simple to do – just start talking. Be aware for a response. It most likely won’t come in words, but in impressions. Sometimes symbolic synchronicities will show up.
Imagine if we all really understood what it was like to be dead. We’d rejoice for the person who passed. We’d have parties. We wouldn’t commit mass suicide, because we’d enjoy still being here. We’d savor the experience of physical form. And we wouldn’t miss our loved ones, because they’re, in a way, even more a part of us.
So this week, whenever you think of someone who’s died, say ‘hello’ and have a little visit. It’ll make them very, very pleased.